How to Use the Cards - Kathy Andes

In the Vatican II document on ecumenism, the Church asks that the Catholic faith be "explained more profoundly and precisely, in such a way and in such terms as our separated brethren can also really understand." (Decree on Ecumenism, Section 11)

Teaching young people to explain the Catholic faith clearly and easily is the primary goal of the Friendly Defenders Catholic Flash Cards. The cards offer clear and concise explanations to questions about the faith in an effort to bring about the unity that Jesus intended for all Christians.

Each card has a question with a Catholic response, a memory verse, and a follow-up response including a bit of Church history. The answers are designed to be memorized, especially the Bible verses. It is not necessary for the memory work to be “word perfect," as comprehension is more desirable than recitation.

Here are some tips on how to use the cards:

  1. Your first goal should be to teach the first card in each of the 12 categories. With just these 12 cards, children will be able to answer the Faith against the most common challenges.
  2. Next, teach the cards by category and in the order recommended in the List of All Topics (the button is located in the upper right hand corner of this page). Most children memorize very easily (just ask them to recite a favorite song or TV commercial)! My children memorize the cards simply by reciting a verse three times a day for the first three days of the week. By the 4th or 5th day of the week the verse is learned. TIP: You could even have your child write it out, sing it, or even act it out.
  3. A good time for teaching at home is after breakfast or dinner. Take time to discuss the concepts on the cards and also "role play," with the parent or teacher playing the role of Questioner. Don't be afraid to change the wording, as in real life the questions might come a little differently and the aim is for understanding.
  4. As your children or students learn more and more cards, be sure to set up a weekly review schedule. If you don't review, they will forget them. As even more cards are learned, some cards can be moved to a monthly review, then a bi-monthly review, etc.
  5. Be sure to convey to your child the need for charity when discussing his or her faith. These cards and answers are not intended to mock or ridicule non-Catholics, but to help Catholic children (and their parents) know, appreciate, and share their faith

If you discover any special ways to teach your children these cards, please share them with us on our website (see the ‘’Other Information” on the homepage)
We hope you enjoy the Friendly Defender cards.

God bless,
Katherine Andes
Catechist, writer, and mother of two great kids

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